7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think Win- Win
Teens can learn to foster the belief that it is possible to
create an atmosphere of Win-Win in every relationship. This habit encourages
the idea that in any given discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a
mutually beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the
accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a belief that everyone can win. It’s both
nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on you, but I won’t be your doormat
either. You care about other people and you want them to succeed. But you also
care about yourself, and you want to succeed as well. Win-Win is abundant. It
is the belief that there’s plenty of success to go around. It’s not either you
or me. It’s both of us. It’s not a matter of who gets the biggest piece of the
pie. There’s more than enough food for everyone. It’s an all-you-can-eat
buffet.
Win-Win always
created more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking Win-Win is the
good feelings it bring on. The true test of whether or not you are thinking Win-Win
or one of the alternatives is how you feel. Win-Lose and Lose-Win thinking will
cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feelings.
Win-Win will
fill your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It will give you confidence.
Even fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no deal.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
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